Following Death: Cemetery Walk & Talk

Explore the burial customs, traditions, and superstitions around death in New England from colonial times through the 19th century with Dean Massey, an urban planning researcher from Northeastern University. Following the talk, a short walk to the Warner Cemetery will offer provide an opportunity to examine epitaphs and iconography up close, and engage in a discussion about the rich diversity of New England’s remembrance practices. Tour the first floor of the Palmer-Warner House and join us as we celebrate the end of our season with warm cider and chestnut roasting.

Dean Massey lives in Providence, Rhode Island. He has strong ties to Connecticut: he grew up in a small town east of the river filled with historic cemeteries, studied at Connecticut College, and worked at the Connecticut General Assembly. In his spare time, he enjoys visiting house museums, tracking down gravestones by masters like Zerubbabel Collins, and hiking in the woods. He has visited every Connecticut Landmarks property, starting with the Nathan Hale Homestead as a child.

Tickets to the Walk & Talk ONLY are $10 per person. Tickets to the Walk & Talk with a tour of the first floor of the Palmer-Warner House are $20 per person, or $10 for CTL Members. To purchase a ticket to the Cemetery Walk & Talk only, select “Adult” below. For tickets to the Walk & Talk and the tour of the house, select “Adult Combo” below. CTL Members, see below for detailed instructions.


If you have any questions, please email palmer.warner@ctlandmarks.org.

CTL Members, please sign in to our ticketing system to access your benefits.

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Prose, Paradox, & Birthday Cake: An Afternoon for Oscar Wilde

This special program honors Oscar Wilde’s birthday with an afternoon of literary entertainment featuring readings from his most celebrated works, including his sparkling social comedies and thought-provoking essays. Blue Fire Stage Company will perform, and light refreshments and cocktails will be available.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


Tickets are $25 for CTL Members and $35 for the general public. Not yet a Connecticut Landmarks Member? Join today to access all the benefits of membership!

If you have any questions, please contact palmer.warner@ctlandmarks.org

CTL Members, sign in to our ticketing system to access your benefits.

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The Picture of Dorian Gray Read-a-Thon

Participants are invited to drop in for a chapter and explore interpretive materials that connect Wilde’s world to Frederic Palmer and Howard Metzger’s mid-20th century community. Light refreshments available between reading sessions. Virtual experience available — please register for details!

 


Admission is FREE with a $5 suggested donation to support programming at the Palmer-Warner House.

If you have any questions, please contact palmer.warner@ctlandmarks.org

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Pipes & Cider

At our third annual Pipes & Cider Festival, the rich traditions of Scotland come alive! Enjoy local beverage tastings from Fifth State Distillery and Yankee Cider Co., who will feature a signature “Dunstaffnage” whiskey cider crafted to transport you to the Scottish moors with its hints of Highland peat smoke. Immerse yourself in the stirring sounds of Mystic Pipes and Drums, the Middletown Police Benefit Association (MPBA) Pipes & Drums, and the Moodus Drum & Fife Corps, as well as the art and music of Rick Spencer and Dawn Indermuehle. Bring your friends and test your knowledge with a spirited round of pub trivia and visit the historic crafters village with Big Bear Trading Company, Wedges of Time Coffee and Textiles, and others. Raise a glass, embrace the music, and celebrate the magic of Scotland.

Tickets are $15/CTL Member and $25/Adult. Your ticket includes access to the festival, musical performances, and pub trivia. Refreshments and goods will be available for purchase.


Attendees must be 21+ to partake in tastings.

Tours of the Palmer-Warner House will be available for regular admission. Please see our website for details and tickets.

If you have any questions, please contact palmer.warner@ctlandmarks.org

CTL Members, sign in to our ticketing system to access your benefits.

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Palmer-Warner House: Progress Flag Field

The Progress Flag Field honors the legacy of Frederic Palmer and Howard Metzger, who created a welcoming space for friends, family, and the LGBTQ+ community. This installation serves as a place for reflection, with each flag representing the diverse identities within the community. It honors those who fought for equality and celebrates unity, resilience, and the importance of safe spaces.

Sponsor a Flag, Share a Story
Each Progress Flag in our field represents a powerful act of love, remembrance, or hope. Whether you’re celebrating someone’s journey, honoring a life lost, or standing in solidarity with those still seeking acceptance, your sponsorship helps build a visible, vibrant symbol of support. Dedicate your flag with a name, a memory, or a message — every story matters.
 

On Display June 1-July 31 from dawn to dusk at the Palmer-Warner House. Free to visit, standard admission applies for guided tours of the house interiors. Purchase tickets to tour the house here.

If you have any questions, please contact palmer.warner@ctlandmarks.org


CTL Members, sign in to our ticketing system to access your benefits.

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Following Death: Cemetery Walk & Talk

New Englanders have always shown particular care for their dearly departed. Explore the burial customs, traditions, and superstitions around death in the region from colonial times through the 19th century with Dean Massey, an urban planning researcher at Northeastern University. Following Massey’s talk, a short walk to the Warner Cemetery will offer participants the opportunity to closely examine epitaphs and iconography up close, as well as engage in a thoughtful discussion about the rich diversity of New England’s remembrance practices.

Dean Massey lives in Providence, Rhode Island. He has strong ties to Connecticut: he grew up in a small town east of the river filled with historic cemeteries, studied at Connecticut College, and worked at the Connecticut General Assembly. In his spare time, he enjoys visiting house museums, tracking down gravestones by masters like Zerubbabel Collins, and hiking in the woods. He has visited every Connecticut Landmarks property, starting with the Nathan Hale Homestead as a child.

Tickets are $10/Person, $5/CTL Member.

Interested in touring the Palmer-Warner House in conjunction with your visit? Book a tour here.


If you have any questions, please email palmer.warner@ctlandmarks.org.

CTL Members, please sign in to our ticketing system to access your benefits.

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Summer Pipes & Cider

Join us for our second annual Pipes & Cider event, where the rich traditions of Scotland come alive! Enjoy barrel-aged cider and whiskey tastings from Yankee Cider Co. The Portland & District Pipers will perform a lively set, accompanied by a short trail walk around the beautiful Palmer-Warner grounds (weather permitting).  Bring your friends and test your knowledge with a round of pub trivia. One of the three trivia categories will feature questions based on the historical fantasy television series, Outlander, which takes place in Scotland. Attendees are encouraged to dress in Outlander attire. Prizes will be awarded to the top two teams. Raise a glass, embrace the music, and celebrate the magic of Scotland!

Event update: Please note that due to unforeseen circumstances, Coreyanne Armstrong will no longer be able to attend Summer Pipes & Cider. The Portland & District Pipers will perform as anticipated!

Tasting, Music, and Trivia: $40/Person, $35/CTL Member
Music & Trivia: $20/Person, $15/CTL Member


Please purchase an “Adult + Tasting” ticket to enjoy the cider. Attendees must be 21+ to partake in tastings.

Tours of the Palmer-Warner House will be available for regular admission. Please see our website for details and tickets.

If you have any questions, please contact palmer.warner@ctlandmarks.org

CTL Members, sign in to our ticketing system to access your benefits.

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Queer Independence Discussion Panel

Engage in a thought-provoking free community panel discussion on queer independence with Sam Avery, Dean Massey, and Clare McCarthy. Moderated by Lynette Fisher and Andy King, this panel will offer the opportunity to connect with diverse voices from across generations as they reflect on past, present, and future LGBTQ+ resilience, self-determination, and community support. Don’t miss this opportunity to connect, learn, and celebrate the strength of queer identities. The Progress Flag Field Closing Ceremony will take place at 4 pm after the panel and final house tour. It will include readings and thoughts from our panelists.

Samuel Avery Giardina is a 26-year-old photographer from Berlin, Connecticut. As a transgender artist himself, he’s dedicated his career to raising awareness for his community through his work. He started taking photos in 2020, the year he started his transition, and has since then found a passion for telling trans stories through his photography. He’s been able to capture his own journey through his self-portraits while using them as a driving force in creating advocacy for the trans community. He then started documenting other trans people’s experiences through his editorial photography work.

Dean Massey is an urban planning researcher at Northeastern University and lives in Providence, Rhode Island. He has strong ties to Connecticut: he grew up in a small-town east of the river filled with historic cemeteries, studied at Connecticut College, and worked at the Connecticut General Assembly. In his spare time, he enjoys visiting house museums, tracking down gravestones by masters like Zerubbabel Collins, and hiking in the woods. He has visited every Connecticut Landmarks property, starting with the Nathan Hale Homestead as a child. Dean found his way to the Palmer-Warner House last year where he shared his love of cemetery history through Following Death: Cemetery Walk & Talk. Massey will return to lead Following Death again this year on October 25 – registration available soon!

Clare McCarthy is, first and foremost, an educator. A former Latin teacher of 33 years, she is skilled at communicating complex and often unfamiliar material clearly and in engaging ways. She opened Transqat Enterprises, a transgender advocacy business, in 2022 to combat mis- and disinformation on the topic and to provide a safe space to learn. Clare produces and hosts Transqat the Podcast, a series of long-form conversations with a wide array of exciting and informed guests. An engaging and thoughtful public speaker, she works with organizations of all sorts to promote a better understanding of trans issues, blending humor, vulnerability, research, and lived experience. Clare is an author with Oliver Heber Books, and she freelances as an authenticity reader with Penguin Random House.

Andy King (he/they) is a museum interpreter for the Palmer-Warner House and the Hempsted Houses. They received their B.A. in History and M.A. in Public History from Central Connecticut State University. Andy worked at the LGBTQ+ Center and served as the Vice President of Pride Club, hosting community events, running trainings, and providing resources for the campus’s queer community. For his M.A. capstone project, he amended the National Register of Historic Places nomination form to include Frederic Palmer’s life and work in the site’s historic narrative. Andy manages interpreters at Mystic Seaport Museum and volunteers for Stonington Pride.

Passionate about the LGBTQ+ community, Lynette Fisher is the Site Administrator for Connecticut Landmarks Southeast Region, which includes the Palmer-Warner House, Hempsted Houses, and Amasa Day House.


Registration includes admission to the Letters of Unity exhibit. House tours must be booked separately; see our website for details.

If you have any questions, please contact palmer.warner@ctlandmarks.org

CTL Members, sign in to our ticketing system to access your benefits.

By |2025-06-27T16:49:56-04:00May 1st, 2025|, |Comments Off on Queer Independence Discussion Panel

Progress Flag Field

The Progress Flag Field honors the legacy of Frederic Palmer and Howard Metzger, who created a welcoming space for friends, family, and the LGBTQ+ community. This installation serves as a place for reflection, with each flag representing the diverse identities within the community. It honors those who fought for equality and celebrates unity, resilience, and the importance of safe spaces.

A Closing Ceremony will take place on Saturday, July 12 at 4 pm after the Queer Independence Discussion Panel. We hope you will join us for readings and thoughts from our panelists, Sam Giardina, Dean Massey, and Clare McCarthy.

Sponsor a Flag, Share a Story
Each Progress Flag in our field represents a powerful act of love, remembrance, or hope. Whether you’re celebrating someone’s journey, honoring a life lost, or standing in solidarity with those still seeking acceptance, your sponsorship helps build a visible, vibrant symbol of support. Dedicate your flag with a name, a memory, or a message — every story matters.

On Display June 14-July 12 from dawn to dusk at the Palmer-Warner House. Purchase tickets to tour the house or view our Letters of Unity exhibit here.

If you have any questions, please contact palmer.warner@ctlandmarks.org

CTL Members, sign in to our ticketing system to access your benefits.

By |2025-06-25T11:47:36-04:00May 1st, 2025|, |Comments Off on Progress Flag Field

Following Death: Cemetery Walk & Talk

New Englanders have always shown particular care for their dearly departed. Explore the burial customs, traditions, and superstitions around death in the region from colonial times through the 19th century with Dean Massey, an urban planning researcher at a university in Boston. Following Massey’s talk, a short walk to the Warner Cemetery will offer participants the opportunity to closely examine epitaphs and iconography up close, as well as engage in a thoughtful discussion about the rich diversity of New England’s remembrance practices.

Dean Massey lives in Providence, Rhode Island. He has strong ties to Connecticut: he grew up in a small town east of the river filled with historic cemeteries, studied at Connecticut College, and worked at the Connecticut General Assembly. In his spare time, he enjoys visiting house museums, tracking down gravestones by masters like Zerubbabel Collins, and hiking in the woods. He has visited every Connecticut Landmarks property, starting with the Nathan Hale Homestead as a child.

This program will take place at 2 pm and 3 pm.

Interested in touring the Palmer-Warner House? Tours will be held after each session at 3 pm and 4 pm. Tour tickets can be purchased as an add-on to your program tickets through the same event ticketing link.

 


CTL Members, please sign in to our ticketing system to access your benefits.

If you have any questions, please email palmer.warner@ctlandmarks.org.

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